Dating Tips: Prepare for a One Night Stand
Dating Tips: Prepare for a One Night Stand
The latest dating tips for men and women on how to get more dates, improve your relationships and sex life, experience more love, intimacy, romance. We include sure-fire techniques, strategies, and methods on how to successfully score with hot & sexy singles.
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You're at a social event and you finally gathered enough nerve to approach the gorgeous brunette with the buns of steel. To your absolute shock and elation, they actually treated you like a good-natured man and not a salivating monster.
As you begin getting comfortable (as do they), you begin to realise that they may actually be flirting with you. If you didn't know better, you could swear that this tanned, toned sexual athlete will be running their nails down your back that same night in their pleasure and agony.
How can you ensure that a one-night stand can garnish you with the reputation of a great lover, while making your momentary partner feel like a prince or princess? Follow these little morsels of information and any partner will consider themselves lucky to be in your hands (as well as having you present yourself within).
Keep it clean
First and foremost, I recommend that before you go out, you take a very deep cleansing shower and scrub everywhere. Get into all those little nooks and crannies, especially if you want your sidekick to enjoy giving you a tongue-lashing experience. Oh yeah, and try not to sweat up a storm at the club either.
Make sure that your hands are washed, you smell good and for goodness sake, chew some minty gum... it can make a world of difference.
Now, depending on what they've been up to that night, going downtown to pay their privates a visit is somewhat dicey. If they've been sweatin' to the oldies like a wild thing, then I don't recommend that you open wide for a taste of the gravy train -- it won't be very tantalizing. If you're at a motel, bring them into the shower with you or better yet, the Jacuzzi. That way you'll both come out clean and enjoy each other's bodies enthusiastically.
Taking them home
If you don't live alone or worse, you live with your parents, then don't bring them to your place. They won't be comfortable no matter how tipsy they are. The whole point of a one-night stand is to ensure a wild evening of passion, rather than having to shush one another the entire way through.
As I mentioned with personal hygiene before, make sure your place is clean and tidy before you leave the house. There's nothing that can ruin the moment like your candidate watching you remove half of your wardrobe off the bed -- not exactly a sexual mood enhancer if you know what I mean.
Also, make sure that your favorite music is already in the CD player for easy access. And you should also have alcohol handy in order to make them a drink -- and I'm not referring to a brewskie).
If the sex has already started
If you guys already began your sexual adventure in the car on the way to your place, then screw the music (not literally) and once you open the door to your house, put them up against the wall and kiss them as though they's water and you've been stuck on a desert for 4 years. Women love spontaneity, but don't begin ravishing them right away.
Foreplay is important even if it may be the last time you ever see them (depending on how good it is, of course). Even if all you want to do is penetrate them into oblivion, remember that this is your chance to be creative and make them delve into kinky aspects of themselves that they never knew existed.
Space to let
Don't end up crouching on your couch with your elbow cutting off the circulation in their arm. Make sure you're in a space that is comfortable and roomy so that you can maneuver freely. Places like the bed, a covered floor and even a nice dining room table are adequate. Now you both know that you're ultimately going to have sex, so I recommend that you delay penetration until they tells you, or rather begs you, to penetrate them.
Kiss their mouth, lick their neck, bite their back, chew their hips, and nibble on their nipples for as long as you can. The idea is to treat their body as though it was specifically designed for you. You can lightly outline the silhouette of their body and then hold on to their hips while you lift their up to kiss their tummy. they'll be begging for it, trust me.
Better to be safe than warty
Now I don't want to hear any arguments on this one -- you must absolutely, positively use protection at all times. You still have to use a condom because there's a lot more potential damage available than just a baby.
STDs are horrible and can even lead to death, and no night of passion is worth your funeral. I apologize for my bluntness, but I have to ensure that you understand that although a one-night stand is all about fun, you shouldn't have to worry about the possible dire consequences the morning after.
Sex with a stranger can definitely be enticing, if not erotic as hell. But considering that you don't really know the depth of the person your sharing your body fluids with (not mentally at least), you'll never really know what fulfills them. If they're a vocal person who makes specific demands, then I guess I'll just have to eat my words.
Now, it's quite likely that they're aware that this is probably no more than just an orgasmic night of gratification, so you don't need to say things like, "I hope you know, this means nothing," or even, "I'll call you in the morning." Don't say anything at all about what it is or where it's heading; they're not stupid. If they ask, then be honest, but otherwise, just enjoy the moment.
Considering it's a one-night thing, why not make it as kinky, crazy and fulfilling as possible -- for both you and them? But be careful, because after you use these helpful tips I have provided, what you thought was a one-night stand may turn into 9 ½ Weeks.